My daughter here in Ethiopia- she
just turned one (on the day I arrived) and many people look at her body
born missing legs and one arm and think "pity" and "how unfortunate" and
"so sad." But she's already capturing people's hearts and shifting
perspectives and bring unmatched joy.
The
nun who runs the orphanage where she lives has been caring for orphans
in Ethiopia for 42 years. I haven't even been alive for that long! I
can't imagine the thousands of lives she has touched and the countless
number of tragic and heroic stories she has witnessed. Sister Lugarta
told me that when a priest called her and described Tizita situation to
her, she just couldn't even imagine it. "I had never even seen a child
like this and I just didn't think we could care for a little one like
her. But then God touched my heart and we just had to take her."
We aren't the only ones who chose yes. It just takes a "yes" to what seems impossible for God to do miraculous work.
Sister said when she arrived, they all cried. Not out of pity, but because of her beautiful face and the joy she exudes. Changing the world, one heart at a time.
I
met with our adoption attorney on Friday morning. He's worked as an
advocate for orphans in Ethiopia for a long time and has a stellar
reputation in Ethiopia. He was anxious to tell me a story about Tizita. A
few months ago, MOWA (Ministry of Women Affairs) had decided to close
down adoptions in Ethiopia due to political pressure. The Prime Minister
of Ethiopia found out and said they had to form an Assessment Team
first and visit several orphanages (and not just process paperwork)
before any definitive decisions were made.
This
Assessment Team included the Deputy Minister of MOWA which I assume
means he is the head honcho in charge of major decisions regarding
orphans in Ethiopia. They visited Kidane Miheret where Tizita lives. My
attorney told me, "When they met Tizita, they had never seen a child
like her. But when they saw that the sisters would take her in and care
for her, and even that she had an American family that would adopt
her... this shifted everything. Tizita was a turning point in the
assessment and they decided to keep adoption open, especially for
children with special needs."
Changing the world, one heart at a time.
And
then I met volunteers at the orphanage from Australia and Malta and
Sweden and the U.S. who had met Tizita back in March when she first
arrived. They were anxious to meet me to talk about the effect Tizita
has had on them. "Her picture is all over the world. And it's not even
the picture of Tizita that touches people but the expression of the
person's face as they hold her like they are being touched by an angel, a
very special presence like they haven't known before."
Changing the world, one heart at a time.
And
hopefully very soon she'll be home with our family, changing our hearts
and our world. I feel humbled and in awe that God has chosen us. I feel
unequipped and unworthy, but then I remember that God's not asking me to have it all together or to be Super Mom. He's just asking for a simple "yes" and I'm confident that all the unknowns that follow that yes will be covered by His abundant grace and provision.
We have prayed and asked the Lord for the fast transaction of getting baby home to Daddy Mom and siblings. These pictures and the story just melted me even more, weeping and joyful praise for a little life, loved.... and spared.
ReplyDeleteYour words are so true! She is melting the hearts of people who haven't even met her yet. We cannot wait til she is here, and we can hug her and hold her and be her friend!
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Oh, Meagan! Tears are streaming down my face as I read this! What a miracle baby! How awesome to hear how Tizita's life has already impacted the lives of so many who have met her, and God even used her story to allow other orphans to continue to be adopted into forever families! I'm so proud of you!
ReplyDeleteAnd I'm so glad you didn't even have to miss her first birthday. I love you!!!
ReplyDeleteGod is so good ALL the time - even when He forms a little girl with no legs, one arm and a heart to transform others.
ReplyDeleteI think we have been praying for her! Eliza, my 17 year old traveled with Ethiopia Smiles in June. She met and fell in love with her. She did not know her name so we have been calling her "Stella." She said she is beauitful! When I stumbled on your blog, I could hardly believe it! It was nothing but pure blessing to be able to tell her "Stella's" real name and that she had a family! God is soooo GOOD!
ReplyDeleteAwesome. I truly believe that God puts an extra special purpose on those orphans who are placed into families. That they may do big things in his name. May God continue to bless her and you.
ReplyDeleteMy friend Jen sent me to your blog. We had a dental team treat there in June and our team fell in love with your daughter. SO much joy! We have a special guy from Ethiopia and he too changes lives. I can't wait to see what the Lord has for your precious girl. My 13 year old daughter sat and held her for so long! What a blessing, so thankful to have found your blog.
ReplyDeleteI have no words...
ReplyDeleteLord God, bless this family as You use them to change the world...one heart at a time.
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